Have you ever seen a “pocket pussy”? If you`ve been to an Adult Novelty Store
chances are you have. Hmmm? I bet a lot
of you wear balaclavas to the sex shop, or is wigs? Well if you were not shy
you would have had the startling experience of coming (NOT cumming) face to face
with a pocket pussy! Don`t fear, it`s
not much different from a blow up doll – except, it’s only the vagina of a blow
up doll. A pocket pussy is a velvety soft plastic/latex little ball with labia
and an inside. Obviously, it`s mostly for the use of straight men. My point
exactly….
Having sex with a woman is not about a genital
experience. It is very much an emotional
experience, a skin experience, a lips experience, a nipple experience and so
forth. It all starts in the emotions. If you don`t find the e-spot before looking
for the others, you will probably fail dismally at your attempt to pleasure
your love to her full potential.
The E-spot consists of a few different mental and emotional
dimensions. Firstly, be someone she
admires. When a woman knows she can seduce someone she admires, she immediately
feels like a sex god herself! To achieve
this, it is important to know what your lover admires in people. Work towards being more of that, and see the
magic happen. Secondly, we need to feel
safe. Your lover will only react to you
on an ideal level if she trusts you.
Trust lies a bit deeper than “she won`t cheat on me” emotional safety to
women is about, “does she love me?”, “will she still want me if she sees me in
my pajamas in the middle of the night with my hair in all directions and my
stinky breath?” and most importantly, are you someone with whom your partner
feels its ok to lose all control and inhibitions. This last aspect is the very essence of good
sex with a woman. Even if you spend
hours vigorously working down under, and are panting of fatigue and not lust –
if you don`t have the E-Spot in place, she will need to quietly close her eyes
and think of a tree (or her boss) to experience orgasm.
After the E- spot follows all the different little spots
covered by our biggest organ – the SKIN (S-Spot). Truly where this is concerned, SIZE DOES MATTER… Be all over her, worship
her beautiful body, kiss her toes and
suck her fingers, make her feel adored,
on fire and wanting. At this stage the
Vulva is still a no go place – even if you yearn to let your fingers slip past
those labia – I say NO!
The L-Spot don’t forget the lips! Not those lips! The ones
attached to her head! A proper French kiss
is the perfect meeting place of the E-Spot and the S-Spot, and is just the thing
to make her lose control of those violent desires…. If you and your partner are
struggling with kissing that is satisfying to both of you, find a midway but
never stop kissing!
After you`ve spent
enough time on all the Spots, you may know venture ahead to the rabbit hole of
redemption….
I know most of you know, but for those of you that don`t…. Your
final destination, one the road to small death is the G-Spot (not only the
Clitoris). It’s not hard to find…. Explore
the roof of her vagina with your fingertips. Just past the entrance you will
feel a place that’s feels almost as though it has rough ridges – keep your finger
there when you rush to the finish line.
She will want you, again and again and again….
She is not a pocket pussy, and after this, you will know the
difference.
Kisses
Darefairy.
